After reading this, I had a really good laugh. Thinking back on all the times I over analyzed some small non meaningful situation with a significant other makes me realize that it was a total waste of energy on my part. Anxiety that was felt, tears that were shed, negative words that were exchanged… NOT WORTH IT.
However, this is just another reason why communication is KEY in a relationship. I have learned that if one or even both partners in a relationship are unwilling to knock down their walls and be vulnerable then the relationship is guaranteed to fail. Being on the same page is vital and being able to logically talk through any situation will only make the relationship stronger and the individuals happier.
Now why man and woman were created to think on the opposite side of the spectrum is beyond me. I guess the real challenge is being able to compromise and stay in open communication in order to make things work.
Take away: Don’t Worry, Be Happy…. and talk it out.